Be willing to change. Nothing is ever the same. If this is true for you then you will change. Because there is only you. You are the only thing in the world that can give your aching, tough self-worth. You are the only thing. Being a single mom is one of the toughest jobs you will ever do, but there is nothing in the world that can change the person inside. If you are willing to turn your hardships and hardships into success then you can handle the adversity that come along with being a mom. I don’t expect you to change. I understand that change is scary, especially when you feel like you can’t. But the sooner you start, the easier it will be.